top of page
Screenshot 2026-08-25 at 9.50.06 AM.png

You built the life you always wanted.
But you keep telling yourself,

"once I hit the next target, I'll finally slow down".

While you chase the next target, your kids keep getting older, your wife gets used to you never being present,

and your health keeps getting pushed down the list.

I help successful dads be more present at home, so their wife and kids actually get their time and attention — not just more of what they buy.

90 days of private 1:1 coaching + daily support.

In 30minutes you'll know if I'm the coach you want in your corner, every single day, for 90 days and true transformation.

5_edited_edited.png

Approved vendor for Australia's largest companies

5_edited_edited.png
5_edited_edited.png
fortescue-logo_brandlogos_edited.png
_AJP0333_edited.jpg

THIS IS WHY IT NEVER FEELS LIKE ENOUGH

You achieve something, and It feels good for a bit.

Then the goal posts move again.

The next number.
The next milestone.
The next thing you buy.

Because somewhere along the way, achievement became more than success.

It became how you proved you were good enough.

So every achievement gives you temporary relief.

But it never lasts.

And your brain finds the next thing you need to achieve to feel okay.

That's why it never feels like enough.

Because you're asking the next achievement to give you a feeling the last one couldn't.

So the answer isn't to stop achieving.

It's to understand why you keep needing the next one — so you can finally enjoy what you've already created.

Without your health or your family paying the price.

HOW IT WORKS

The Lead Yourself Process

90 days. Four steps. Real change.

01

The Breakthrough Session

We go straight into what's driving it, not around it. You'll understand why you Feel → Think → Do the way you do, where those patterns came from, and what you've been trying to protect yourself from.

02

Reset - every single day

This is where I'm the coach in your pocket. I'll teach you how to Reset when the stress, pressure, overthinking or old patterns show up — and I'll be there every day helping you put it into practice in your actual life.

03

Rewire

As you Reset, you start catching the old patterns instead of automatically reacting from them. We work on changing how you Feel → Think → Do, so the same situations no longer trigger the same response.

04

Rebuild

We repeat the new responses until they become new patterns — and eventually, a new way of being. You're not forcing yourself to be present, look after yourself or enjoy what you've achieved. It's becoming who you are.

Right for you if you

✔️ Have hit the number and still don't feel it

✔️ Know your family is paying for your success and want that to stop

✔️ Are done waiting for the next milestone to finally feel enough

✔️ Will show up for the daily work between sessions

Not right for you if you

✗ Think the answer is just one more win away

✗ Want your family to change before you do

✗ Are looking to be fixed without doing the work

✗ Can't handle being challenged or held accountable

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

His work was very powerful and very pure. He helped me access a part of myself that was still in pain, still abandoned, still not seen, and release her.

-Tamara, Director

 

His delivery was first class. The ability to not only bring people into the discussion, but provide tools to help with people's own individual struggles was very unique.

-Superintendent, Rio Tinto

 

Thank you for coming in to chat to the team across Australia. I've had really great feedback about the session.

-Jason Chan, MD, Bankwest

MY STORY

I didn't figure this out in a classroom.

At my peak I was earning $50k a month. I had the identity, the business, the life. But I always thought once I paid off the house, bought the cars, I'd finally be good enough. Then I could let my family love me.

Then I got sick. Two strokes. I lost my memory. Lost my speech. Woke up not knowing my own wife's name. I had to let go of the business, not knowing if I'd ever work again. 

I felt broken. I felt like a loser. Like I was no one without my business.

And in that gap, I became the dad who was home a lot. Who did school drop-off and pick-up. Who helped my wife around the house more.

That's when I realised I didn't need more money to get there.

And when I finally learned to speak properly again, and got enough memory back to coach again, I realised I could have both.

I didn't have to be with my girls, but not be present. Or with my wife, and be distracted.

That's what I teach. And I want to help you find this before your family has to sit by your hospital bed wondering if you're going to make it.

THE INVESTMENT

2 ways to work with me

Not sure if you're ready to commit to 90 days of deep daily work? Start with the Breakthrough. 

BREAKTHROUGH

 

$888 + gst

One session · 4 week

One deep session focused on your primary problem — what's driving it and how to shift it. A plan you can take away and act on, with support to make sure it sticks.

✓  1 x 2–3 hour breakthrough session

✓  Personalised 4-week action plan

✓  Weekly WhatsApp check-in

✓  30min Integration call at week 4

Full Transformation

LEAD YOURSELF 

90 days to Reset your body, Rewire your brain and Rebuild your identity — so you can switch off, be present with your family and actually enjoy your success.

 

✓  2 x 2–3 hour breakthrough sessions per month

✓  Tailored 2-week plan between each session

✓  Daily WhatsApp support and accountability

✓  Full privacy — no one knows unless you tell them

Limited to 5 clients at a time.

Guarantee:

If after 90 days your family, health or happiness are still paying the price for your success, I'll work with you for another 30 days, free.

Frequently asked questions

Enjoy your success.

Without your family, health and happiness paying the price.

Limited to 5 clients at a time.

Lachie Samuel Mariu.
Lead Yourself First

bottom of page