Lachie Samuel Mariu
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
You show up every day as the person you felt you had to be.
You perform. You try hard. You achieve.
And still, it never feels like enough.
No matter how much you do, something always feels like it's missing.
You don't know why. You just know that everything you've achieved hasn't made you feel as proud as you thought it would.
WHAT I DO
Most people spend their whole life taking the long way home.
You're walking home at night. You get to the alleyway. You know it'll get you home faster. But something in you tells you it's not safe. So you take the long way. Every time. Never actually knowing whether it was dangerous or not.
That's what you've been doing with your emotions your whole life.
I guide you down that path. The one you've been avoiding.
THE FRAMEWORK
The Mariu Model
The same system runs the problem AND the solution.
The difference is where it starts. Unsafe or safe.
THE PROBLEM - STARTING FROM UNSAFE
Unsafe
Nervous system detects a threat — real or perceived
Self-protection
Feel Think Do runs from fear —
to keep you safe
Patterns
Repeated self protection becomes automatic behaviour
Identity
The pattern becomes who you think you are and who you attract
The achiever. The provider. The one who has it together. Not who you are — who the pattern made you.
Feel Think Do — The mechanism of self protection
Every time the nervous system feels unsafe, Feel Think Do runs automatically. Feel — the body detects danger. Think — the brain decides how to protect. Do — the behaviour that keeps you safe. Repeated enough times, this becomes the pattern. The pattern becomes the identity
THE SOLUTION - STARTING FROM SAFE
Reset
Return the nervous system to safety — interrupt the pattern before it runs
Rewire
Feel Think Do runs from safety — brain creates a new response
Rebuild
New responses repeated — new pattern forms
New Identity
New pattern becomes who you actually are
Safe, settled, enough. And the people around you feel it too.
THE DIFFERENCE
Running from unsafe
Performing. Achieving. Chasing. Never feeling proud. Never feeling like enough. The pattern running as you.
Leading from safe
Present. Settled. Proud. Making decisions from who you actually are. The people around you feel the difference.
IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?
This work is for leaders who are ready to take full ownership of what they think, feel and do. This is about the willingness to hold yourself accountable and stop blaming others, while you Reset your nervous system, Rewire your thoughts and Rebuild your identity. This creates leaders who make their family and their team feel safe.
I'm in your corner the whole way, but I'll be honest with you when I need to be.
If you're looking for someone who will agree with you, you're just looking for someone who will tell you you're right. That's not me.
Right fit if you...
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Own what's not working, without blaming others
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Are willing to feel what you've been avoiding
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Want to understand yourself, not just mask problems
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Will show up and do the daily work between sessions
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Can handle being challenged and held accountable
Not the right fit if you...
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Believe your problems are entirely someone else's fault
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Want validation more than truth
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Are looking to be fixed without doing the work
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Won't commit to the daily practice between sessions
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Can't handle being challenged or held accountable
HOW IT WORKS
The 5 Steps
01
Breakthrough session
Every session is 2 hours and every session is a breakthrough. We go into the feeling — not around it. Back to the memory holding the pain, resetting and rewiring it. Some memories will surface. You'll write letters. This is the path I guide you down, every single time. You'll finish every session feeling lighter and more free than you've ever felt.
02
The daily reset
Every morning you do the Body Emotion Reset and send me a voice message with what came up. This is how the nervous system learns it's safe to feel — not from a single session, but through daily repetition.
03
Daily support and accountability
Monday to Friday I'm there. Someone to hear what came up, hold you to what you said you'd do, and make sure you don't take the long way home between sessions.
04
Integration and rebuild
As the patterns lose their grip, life gets simpler. You stop performing. You start making decisions from a place that's actually yours. And for the first time — you feel like you're enough.
MY STORY
I didn't figure this out in a classroom.
At my peak I was earning $50k a month. I had the identity, the business, the life. And I was using food and alcohol to keep going, because underneath all of it, something didn't feel right.
Then I had two strokes. Lost my memory. Lost my speech. Woke up in hospital and couldn't remember my wifes name.
Rebuilding from nothing is where I found the work that changed everything.
I stopped chasing the next win, hoping it would finally make me feel proud, and understood why nothing ever did.
That's what I teach.
"His work was very powerful and very pure. He helped me access a part of myself that was still in pain, still abandoned, still not seen... and release her."
— Tamara
THE INVESTMENT
3 month coaching package
One person. My full attention. Three months of real work.
This isn't a course. It's not a group. It's three months of understanding why you've achieved everything and still don't feel proud of any of it.
A 45 minute keynote costs $3,500 + gst. This is three months of actual work.
$3997
per month · 3 month package · $11,991 total
Most sessions stop just before the breakthrough.
My sessions are 2 hours, long enough to actually get there.
✓2 x 2hr breakthrough sessions per month
✓Daily whatsapp support. I'm there when things come up, when you need to be heard, and when you need someone to hold you accountable. I'll touch base every day, to make sure you're doing what you said you would. You will be called forward and challenged.
✓Three months of consistent, deep work. Long enough to create real change. A safe nervous system. A brain that makes good decisions. New patterns. New identity.
✓Full privacy. No one will know you're working with me unless you choose to tell them
If the first session isn't right for you, I'll refund you in full. No questions asked... because I'm so confident you'll have breakthroughs that change your life.