Lachie Samuel Mariu · The Self-Leadership Guy
THIS IS WHY YOU FEEL THE WAY YOU DO
You don't need breathwork, psychedelics or to bloody climb mount everest just to get rid of the pain. All you need, is to teach your nervous system how to tell the difference between what feelings are safe and what isn't.
That's nervous system regulation, and it starts telling your brain it can stop triggering the patterns it created to protect you.
Those moments in life that made you feel afraid, made you cry, made you feel like a failure — they told your nervous system that's what was unsafe. So your brain held those memories and created a response to protect you from ever feeling that way again.
So you've been protecting yourself with this response your whole life. Over time, self protection became a pattern, then it became your identity.
That's just who I am. I'm blunt. I'm aggressive. I'm just broken.
But it's not who you are. It's what your brain built to keep you safe.
This is what I teach you to shift.
Reset — your nervous system, so your body knows what's actually safe and what isn't.
Rewire — your brain, so it stops triggering self protection patterns you don't actually need.
Rebuild — an identity you're actually proud of. One that feels so safe and confident that the people you love and lead feel it too.
HOW IT WORKS
The 5 Steps
01
Breakthrough session
Every session is 2 hours and every session is a breakthrough. We go into the feeling — not around it. Back to the memory holding the pain, resetting and rewiring it. Some memories will surface. You'll write letters. This is the path I guide you down, every single time. You'll finish every session feeling lighter and more free than you've ever felt.
02
The daily reset
Every morning you do the Body Emotion Reset and send me a voice message with what came up. This is how the nervous system learns it's safe to feel — not from a single session, but through daily repetition.
03
Daily support and accountability
Monday to Friday I'm there. Someone to hear what came up, hold you to what you said you'd do, and make sure you don't take the long way home between sessions.
04
Integration and rebuild
As the patterns lose their grip, life gets simpler. You stop performing. You start making decisions from a place that's actually yours. And for the first time — you feel like you're enough.
Right for you if you
✔️ Own what's not working, without blaming others
✔️ Are willing to feel what you've been avoiding
✔️ Want to understand yourself, not just mask problems
✔️ Will show up and do the daily work between sessions
✔️ Can handle being challenged and held accountable
Not right for you if you
✗ Believe your problems are entirely someone else's fault
✗ Want validation more than truth
✗ Are looking to be fixed without doing the work
✗ Won't commit to the daily practice between sessions
✗ Can't handle being challenged or held accountable
MY STORY
I didn't figure this out in a classroom.
At my peak I was earning $50k a month. I had the identity, the business, the life. And I was using food and alcohol to keep going, because underneath all of it, something didn't feel right.
Then I had two strokes. Lost my memory. Lost my speech. Woke up in hospital and couldn't remember my wifes name.
Rebuilding from nothing is where I found the work that changed everything.
I stopped chasing the next win, hoping it would finally make me feel proud, and understood why nothing ever did.
That's what I teach.
"His work was very powerful and very pure. He helped me access a part of myself that was still in pain, still abandoned, still not seen... and release her."
— Tamara
THE INVESTMENT
3 month coaching package
One person. My full attention every single day. Three months of real work.
This isn't a course. It's not a group. It's three months of understanding why you've achieved everything and still don't feel proud of any of it.
A 45 minute keynote costs $3,500 + gst. This is three months of actual work.
$3997
per month · 3 month package · $11,991 total
Most sessions stop just before the breakthrough.
My sessions are 2 hours, long enough to actually get there.
✓2 x 2hr breakthrough sessions per month
✓Daily whatsapp support. I'm there when things come up, when you need to be heard, and when you need someone to hold you accountable. I'll touch base every day, to make sure you're doing what you said you would. You will be called forward and challenged if you do not challenge yourself.
✓Three months of consistent, deep work. Long enough to create real change. A safe nervous system. A brain that makes good decisions. New patterns. New identity.
✓Full privacy. No one will know you're working with me unless you choose to tell them. I don't need anyone to know how much I've helped you change your life. I care more about you, your team and your family.
If the first session isn't right for you, I'll refund you in full. No questions asked... because I'm so confident you'll have breakthroughs that change your life.