Lachie Samuel Mariu · The Self-Leadership Guy
THIS IS WHY YOU FEEL THE WAY YOU DO
You don't need breathwork, psychedelics or to bloody climb Mount Everest, just to change how you feel.
Why?
Because what you push away will always come back to you.
Yes, you can mask the sadness, the hurt, the pain. But you can't get rid of it. You must allow it in. Fully feel it. And teach your body that it's not as unsafe as you thought it was.
Those moments in life that made you feel afraid, made you cry, made you feel like a failure — they told your nervous system that's what was unsafe.
But the emotion was never unsafe.
The moment that generated it was.
And not feeling that emotion was your safety in that moment.
The memory of that moment is what triggers your self protection now. Your body feels the emotion and your brain triggers the self protection response that it believes will keep you safe.
Over time, self protection became a pattern.
Then it became your identity.
That's just who I am. I'm blunt. I'm aggressive. I just work hard. I'm just broken.
But it's not who you are. It's what your brain built to keep you safe — and this is what I help you Reset, Rewire and Rebuild.
This is what I teach you to shift.
Reset — your nervous system, so your body knows what's actually safe and what isn't.
Rewire — your brain, so it stops triggering self protection patterns you don't actually need.
Rebuild — an identity you're actually proud of. One that feels so safe and confident that the people you love and lead feel it too.
HOW IT WORKS
The Lead Yourself Process
Three months. Four steps. Real change.
01
The Breakthrough Session
We go into the feeling — not around it. Back to the memory holding the pain, resetting and rewiring it. Some memories will surface. You'll write letters to the people you've hurt, or the ones who have hurt you. You'll finish every session feeling lighter and more free than you've ever felt before.
02
A tailored plan every 2 weeks
After every session you get a 2-week plan built around exactly where you are. Not a generic framework — a specific path for what needs to shift next. This is how the work continues between sessions, not just during them.
03
Daily support and accountability
Every day I'm there on WhatsApp. Someone to hear what came up, hold you to what you said you'd do, and make sure you don't give up or punish yourself between sessions. Real change doesn't happen in the sessions. It happens in the days between them.
04
Integration and rebuild
As the patterns lose their grip, life gets simpler. You stop performing. You start making decisions from a place that's actually yours. And for the first time — you feel like you're enough. Your presence will create safety, not stress.
Right for you if you
✔️ Own what's not working, without blaming others
✔️ Are willing to feel what you've been avoiding
✔️ Want to understand yourself, not just mask problems
✔️ Will show up and do the daily work between sessions
✔️ Can handle being challenged and held accountable
Not right for you if you
✗ Believe your problems are entirely someone else's fault
✗ Want validation more than truth
✗ Are looking to be fixed without doing the work
✗ Won't commit to the daily practice between sessions
✗ Can't handle being challenged or held accountable
MY STORY
I didn't figure this out in a classroom.
At my peak I was earning $50k a month. I had the identity, the business, the life. And I was using food and alcohol to keep going, because underneath all of it, something didn't feel right.
Then I had two strokes. Lost my memory. Lost my speech. Woke up in hospital and couldn't remember my wifes name.
Rebuilding from nothing is where I found the work that changed everything.
I stopped chasing the next win, hoping it would finally make me feel proud, and understood why nothing ever did.
That's what I teach.
THE INVESTMENT
2 ways to work with me
Not sure if you're ready to commit to 3 months of deep daily work? Start with the Breakthrough. One session, a clear plan, and 4 weeks to see what actually shifts.
BREAKTHROUGH
$888
One session · 4 weeks
One deep session focused on your primary problem — what's driving it and how to shift it. A plan you can take away and act on, with support to make sure it sticks.
✓ 1 x 2–3 hour breakthrough session
✓ Personalised 4-week action plan
✓ Weekly WhatsApp check-in
✓ Integration call at week 4
Full Transformation
LEAD YOURSELF
$1,997/month
3 month commitment · $5,991 total
The deeper work. Three months to completely shift your patterns, rewire your beliefs and rebuild your identity — with someone by your side every single day.
✓ 2 x 2–3 hour breakthrough sessions per month
✓ Tailored 2-week plan between each session
✓ Daily WhatsApp support and accountability
✓ Full privacy — no one knows unless you tell them
Limited to 4 clients at a time.
"His work was very powerful and very pure. He helped me access a part of myself that was still in pain, still abandoned, still not seen... and release her."
— Tamara, Director